Single or Not, That's the question...

Sometimes, I think being single is a better choice. You can just spend all your time and effort to take care of youself without worrying another person. You don't have to worry what is he/she doing when you are not around. You don't have to worry is he/she eating well, sleeping well, doing fine. Two words - Care Free.

Basically, if you are attached, the life of your partner becomes part of your life.

But sometimes, I think... Wouldn't it be better to have someone else other than you or your family to care of yourself? Wouldn't it be good to have someone who could share your sorrows or happiness with you? Wouldn't it be good to have someone there for you when you needed them? Wouldn't it be good to have someone to lend you a secure shoulder to lean on when you are totally down? Wouldn't it be good to have someone giving you the warmest hug when everything just turn its back on you? Wouldn't it be good to have someone holding your hands tight in a crowd? Wouldn't it be good to have someone there to tell you that he/she cares when you stubbornly shouted," Nobody cares!"

Wouldn't it be good to have someone who you can also take care of other than yourself? Wouldn't it be good to have someone who could share his/her sorrows or happiness with you? Wouldn't it be good to be there for someone when he/she needed you? Wouldn't it be good to lend someone your shoulder when he/she was totally down? Wouldn't it be good to give someone the warmest hug ever and let him/her feel secure? Wouldn't it be good to hold his/her tight in a crowd? Wouldn't it be good to tell someone that you care, "Yes I care, I really DO!".

Argh... I have been thinking too much! Dreaming too much! Now, back to reality.

I'm single... still... for 22 years...


如果命運掌握在自己的手中,那命中注定又是什麼?

PS. This post is somehow inspired by Jesselyn and KH.